We are human beings… We fly when we are happy, We Cry when we are sad, We shout when we are angry.. and We Fight when we lost. These are different ways to express our emotions. In the same way we lose confidence and get depressed when we are at the edge of losing something. In that situation, how to keep yourself motivated ? How to build self confidence ?… Let that be your education, career, love or anything….How to motivate yourself when you lose confidence? What to do to improve self confidence ?
Here are the 10 Self confidence boosters:
1. Don’t feel fear for unnecessary things:
1st and foremost thing we should remember is… we are the ones who can control us and rule us. No one has right to do that. Then why do you need to fear for something?? What can happen to maximum ? If you can fix the answer in your mind as “Nothing”… Then you won’t let anything happen outside too. Focus on where you want to go, not on what you fear. Decide that you want it more than you afraid of it.
2. Never do anything for other’s sake:
We are not robots to obey some laws for life long. Do whatever you like and whatever you want. You can not stay for long time if you feel that… something is pretending you to do things.
3. Motivate yourself when you feel you are Lost:
You are not the only human being that is not able to achieve something… Think that somewhere somehow you might have shown your knowledge and skills that no one has. Try again and again…If you are not able to do it.. then no one can do it.
4. Patience is the greatest weapon anyone has:
Sometimes how much ever the effort you put.. you may not be able to get succeed. Because… success is not a “Ready to eat” mug noodles that you just heat and eat. It’s an ice cream that has to follow different steps during its preparation. If you fail at one step the other steps too will not be so effective. You shouldn’t rush for something that you want to last forever…:-) So be patient till you get a good mould of your ice cream 🙂
5. Memorize your previous achievements and know your strength:
Every living being is meant for something. God has sent us with some purpose. Everyone definitely has something great in them. You too should have something. Think..
6. Be yourself and know How to motivate yourself:
By being yourself, you can put something wonderful in the world that was not there before. You were born to win, although to be a winner, you must plan to win, prepare to win, & expect to win.
7. You are never a loser until you agree that you lost it:
Put your heart, mind , soul into even your smallest act. That is the secret of success. Think that it’s your darkest moment. So you should focus on light. Nothing is impossible. The word itself saying i’m possible.
8. You are not less than anything or anyone:
This is true. The expert in anything was once a beginner.So change your thoughts… You can change the world. Keep your face always towards the sunshine. Then all the shadows will fall back to you.
9. Analyse why exactly you are in that situation and work on it:
Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go.. they merely determine where you start. Analyse what exactly created this depression in you that you feel you lost. As i said.. nothing is lost until you agree that you lost it.
10. Confidence is not anyone’s property:
So..Be confident for doing anything. Perfection is not attainable. But if we chase perfection, you can catch excellence. What we think is what we become. You must do that things you think you can not do. When you have a dream you have to grab it and never let it go..
Be happy and be confident always.. the world is in your hand and your thoughts can surely change your ways… 🙂
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