Professional Problems AND Career break
Don’t get panic.. It’s not the end of the world. The Earth is still spinning and you are still breathing.. It’s just the loss of your bread and butter… Oh… No… Actually…That is also not correct… It’s just the loss of one way to earn your bread and butter. It is just a career break due to some professional problems… That might be due to recession also. So… Is that the only way you have ??? If your final destination is earning money and leading a happy and beautiful life… Why do you need to get tensed when you miss one such way. Do you think that is the only way for you to lead your life ? Be calm and sit back… Listen to your silence… It has many things to say. Now these are the Things to keep in mind if you lose your Job Suddenly.
Here are the 10 things you need to know when you lose your job :
1. Trust yourself and your strength:
Tell me one thing… Who is the most trustworthy and selfless friend that helps you to boost your confidence levels? If you ask me this question i would say…” it’s me… Myself..” Because i know my strength and i trust myself so much than anyone else.
You have planned to go to certain place and the road is closed after half of the way of your journey… I am sure you definetly take out your mobile and search in google maps for another way to reach your destination. But you won’t come back just because one road is closed…unless you don’t have confidence in you. Sometimes Difficult roads leads to beautiful destinations.
2. Find out your Plus and Minus:
It doesn’t matter with what reason you lost your job. It could be because of company’s poor performance too. They never reveals it directly. So..company is never loyal to you. Always think about yourself and what you are getting. Learn from your mistakes and correct them to not to repeat them in future.
3. Read the Failure stories not the Success stories:
Most important thing to do right now is this. From many people in my circle.. I heard that.. “Good that i lost my job.. If not then i wouldn’t be in this place.” So… Don’t think that you are a failure. That’s your 1st step for long term success.
4. Time to focus on your interests and materialize:
Till now you might be in that busy and tight work timings. But somewhere at one or other time you might have thought about the job or work that you are really interested in. So think about it now.
5. Start with small targets and focus on your backlogs:
You should remember that, you are not bound to any boss now. You need to keep going and chasing the success. Whatever career or business or any interest you choose, start with small target. We all studied this quote “Rome was not built in a day”. So, as I told, start with small targets and eventually you will know where you are lagging and what is dragging you down. Do you know…? it is always easy to find the hole in a glass than the hole in a dam. For sure you will be successful one day. But for that you need to focus even on small things too.
6. Be ready with a plan to hit the target:
I am sure you are pumped up with lots of energy and ready to jump to hit the target. But jumping without knowing the depth will sink you deeper. So be prepared for what you are doing and plan it well before starting it.
7. Never lose your confidence:
Because its the driving force for you in this critical situation. That makes you keep running no matter how big the problem is. Know yourself how to build confidence…
Read more… About how to build confidence
8. Take support from your Near and Dear:
This is the time you need some care and support from your near and dear. The situation of losing job will create a lot of Depression and frustration. This is the time you need a helping hand. So, keep all worries aside. Take the suggestions of your life partner about your future plans. If you have someone in your near and dear who can give good suggestion for your future and support you economically. It will give you a lot of strength to take forward step.
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9. Think that life has given another opportunity to you to go higher:
Fall 10 times, and stand up the 11th time. This is the time you need to think about motivating yourself towards your goals and try to reach higher and higher
10. Learn from Negatives, take Positives from past:
You lost it… So, what? Its ok… you are not the loser. You can turn that to a new and good success. Check what are your negatives, where are you imperfect and try to learn from them. And turn your positives and use them in a correct way
So all set for you now… Right?
Go ahead… and build your confidence to reach higher and higher like… Read more…