Happy MOTHER Happy BABY
Wife is every Husband’s 2nd mother. But, husband is always wife’s first kid. This is what a wife’s heart is. That is the bond a good relationship or happy wedding creates. Now this is the precious time for you both… She is carrying your image in her womb. This is a great time to express all your love to her. Keeping her happy is your duty. But, keeping her happier is very important for her and the baby too. So… How to keep your pregnant wife happy?
Here are the few points every husband should keep in mind when their wife is carrying.
How to keep your pregnant wife HAPPY:
1. Let her show all her excitement about the good news and cheer up:
Once you both are prepared to invite your baby home, both of you would be more excited for the coming little dude. Here… you are the best buddy to her. So, she always feels like sharing everything with you first. Understand that and give her a warm hug and listen whatever she is feeling about the confirmed pregnancy. Not only when you heard it 1st time… continue that till last month to make her warm and happy always.
2. Know her heart and get her before she asks:
This would be a very easy thing for you as, you already love her so much. But during pregnancy craving for different things is more than the normal time. During pregnancy, women may not like the things what they usually like. Don’t force her what she doesn’t feel like eating. Instead get what she tells. If the things she asked should not be taken during pregnancy, convince her telling some sweet excuses. Remember… She is not asking you all these… the naughty little one who is playing inside her is insisting ?. So, treat her like a baby and convince her if something is not good for her and the baby.
3. Take her to a Babymoon:
Very interesting till here right ? 🙂
When we get married, we love to celebrate the happiness alone by naming it as honeymoon. Why don’t you celebrate that for pregnancy too? Generally… during the period of pregnancy, 1st month to 5th month is very crucial and one should be very careful about travelling and foods. So, this is not a good time. Avoid that time for babymoon. After crossing 5th month, that should be fine and baby will start showing moments too. So, this is the perfect time to enjoy the babymoon period. If you want to go for it, get ready with everything whatever she needs, to make her comfortable during travelling.
4. Give her a memorable Pregnancy Gift that she never ever forgets:
She is going to give you precious gift for your lifetime. A new relation, a new bond to your heart. A big promotion to you as “DAD”. So, don’t you think she deserves a fantastic gift that she loves. Though you can’t give an equal gift like the baby… but definitely you can make her happy with your gift. Choose anything that she loves, and that memorizes her pregnancy days every time when she wears or uses it. You can even plan to a pregnancy photoshoot too 🙂 .
5. Pamper her and treat her like a baby:
This is what a woman usually expects from her man. That is more required during pregnancy time. Never behave aggressively and show your anger in front of her. You know… Pampering her will not only make her happy and it makes the little one happy too. When you touch her tummy, baby can feel your touch from inside. By that, they can easily get attached to you once they come out to this world. So, to be a good father… Be a good husband.
6. Spend enough time with her:
During normal days, it’s obvious that you might be busy with your daily routines and works. She might be used to it. But what guys doesn’t know is… Pregnancy is the time women feels so much stress and anxiety. This causes a kind of depression which will affect the mental health of the baby. They sit silent, but many things will run in their brain. That could be about the anxiety of delivery and pains or the stress that is causing on their uterus. Understand that and make her feel that, you are there to share her burden. Tell her that, you can support her at any circumstance. Not only telling… create that environment so that, she never gets that time to think about the loneliness.
7. Help her in her daily routine:
During pregnancy, she needs to carry around 10 to 15 kg of weight which will increase day by day for day and night. So, handling household things is not so easy for her during this time. Understand this and help her in her daily routines like cooking, bringing groceries etc. Small help will also matter big during this time.
8. Discuss with her often about the newly coming little one:
It is one kind of help to her to relieve the mental stress and pressure that she is facing due to continuously increasing weight. Discuss about what to name to the baby. Talk about the baby images that you both saw in Scans during regular checkups. Compliment about how good she is doing with the baby. How the baby is going to be. How you both will play with the baby. She loves to hear them a lot.
9. Start shopping for both Mother and Baby:
It’s a universal truth that “Women loves shopping”. When it comes for your upcoming bundle of joy… then it would be more exiting to her. Take her to baby malls and kids places where she can choose whatever she likes. Also, she needs maternity wear to feel comfortable during the time of pregnancy. You can start Maternity shopping from 5th month onwards. But, Baby shopping you can do it from 8th month.
10. Comfort her with massage:
Day by day when the weight is becoming more… she gets severe back pain and swelling of legs and feet. A regular massage to the lower back gently will help her to relax a lot. Also, massage her feet, so that she feels less pressure on feet while walking. Adjust her pillows and bed to give a comfortable posture to sleep. Bring her a C-Pillow to feel better while sleeping.
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Apart from these there are many things… Only you know about her. So, you know how to make her happy for sure ?
All the best…