A wife is every Husband’s 2nd mother. But the husband is always the wife’s first kid. This is what a wife’s heart is. That is the bond a good relationship or a happy wedding creates. Now this is the precious time for you both… She is carrying your image in her womb. This is a great time to express all your love to her. Keeping your pregnant wife happy is your duty. Because keeping her happier is very important for her and the baby, too. So, how to keep your pregnant wife happy? How to be happy in pregnancy?
Here are a few points every husband should keep in mind when their wife is carrying.
How to keep your pregnant wife HAPPY?
1. Let her show all her excitement about the good news and cheer up:
Once you both are prepared to invite your baby home, you will be more excited. The coming little dude will bring joy. Here… you are the best buddy to her. So, she always feels like sharing everything with you first. Understand that and give her a warm hug and listen to whatever she is feeling about the confirmed pregnancy. Not only when you heard it 1st time… continue that till last month to make her warm and happy always.
2. Know her heart and get her before she asks:
This would be a very easy thing for you as, as you already love her so much. But during pregnancy, craving for different things is more than normal. During pregnancy, women do not like the things that they usually like. Don’t force her what she doesn’t feel like eating. Instead, get what she tells. If the things she asks should not be taken during pregnancy, convince her by telling some sweet excuses. Remember… She is not asking you all these… the naughty little one who is playing inside her is insisting ?. So, treat her like a baby and convince her that something is not good for her and the baby.
3. Take her to a Babymoon:
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When we get married, we love to celebrate the happiness alone by naming it as honeymoon. Why don’t you celebrate that for pregnancy too? Generally, during pregnancy, the 1st to 5th month is very crucial. During this time, one should be very careful about traveling and foods. So, this is not a good time. Avoid that time for babymoon. After crossing 5th month, that should be fine and baby will start showing moments too. So, this is the perfect time to enjoy the babymoon period. If you want to go for it, get ready with everything whatever she needs, to make her comfortable during traveling.
4. Give her a memorable Pregnancy Gift that she never ever forgets:
She is going to give you a precious gift for your lifetime. A new relation, a new bond to your heart. A big promotion to you as “DAD”. So, don’t you think she deserves a fantastic gift that she loves? Though you can’t give an equal gift like the baby… but definitely you can make her happy with your gift. Choose anything that she loves and that reminds her of her pregnancy days whenever she wears or uses it. You can even plan a pregnancy photo shoot too :-).
5. Pamper her and treat her like a baby:
This is what a woman usually expects from her man. That is more required during pregnancy. Never behave aggressively and show your anger in front of her. You know… Pampering her will not only make her happy, but it will make the little one happy, too. When you touch her tummy, the baby can feel your touch from inside. By that, they can easily get attached to you once they come out into this world. So, to be a good father… Be a good husband.
6. Spend enough time with her:
During normal days, it’s obvious that you are busy with your daily routines and work. She is used to it. But what guys don’t know is… Pregnancy is a time when women feel so much stress and anxiety. This causes depression, which will affect the mental health of the baby. They sit silent, but many things will run through their brain. That is about the anxiety of delivery and pains or the stress that is causing on their uterus. Understand that and make her feel that you are there to share her burden. Tell her that you can support her in any circumstance. Not only telling… create that environment so that she never gets that time to think about the loneliness.
7. Help her in her daily routine:
During pregnancy, she carries around 10 to 15 kg of weight. This weight will increase day by day, continuously both day and night. So, handling household things is not so easy for her during this time. Understand this and help her in her daily routines like cooking, bringing groceries etc. Small help will also matter a lot during this time.
8. Discuss with her often about the newly coming little one:
It provides her with some relief. She faces mental stress and pressure due to her continuously increasing weight. Discuss about what to name the baby. Talk about the baby images that you both saw in Scans during regular check-ups. Compliment about how well she is doing with the baby. How is the baby going to be? How will you both play with the baby? She loves to hear them a lot.
9. Start shopping for both Mother and Baby:
It’s a universal truth that “Women loves shopping”. When it comes for your upcoming bundle of joy… then it would be more exiting to her. Take her to baby malls and kids places where she can choose whatever she likes. Also, she needs maternity wear to feel comfortable during the time of pregnancy. You can start Maternity shopping from 5th month onward. But, Baby shopping you can do it from 8th month.
10. Comfort her with massage:
Day by day when the weight is becoming more… she gets severe back pain and swelling of legs and feet. A regular massage to the lower back gently will help her to relax a lot. Also, massage her feet, so that she feels less pressure on feet while walking. Adjust her pillows and bed to give a comfortable posture to sleep. Bring her a C-Pillow to feel better while sleeping.
So, that’s all I can think of with people’s experiences. Rest, you know 🙂












